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A resource for sleep deprived parents that want to approach sleep training with kindness and understanding.
Understanding Your Baby’s Temperament and Sleep- (And Why It Might Explain Everything About Bedtime)
Not all babies sleep the same — and that’s not your fault! From easy-going to highly sensitive, every baby has a unique temperament that influences how they sleep, feed, and adjust to the world.
In this post, we’ll break down the three main temperament types, the nine traits that make your baby unique, and gentle ways to support better rest — without forcing change.
My Baby Will Only Sleep While Latched — What’s Going On and What Can I Do?
Does your baby only sleep while nursing? It’s one of the most common — and completely normal — phases of early parenthood. In this post, we explore why it happens (hint: hormones and comfort!), what to rule out first, and how to gently guide your baby toward independent sleep when you’re ready.
You’re not “breaking a habit” — you’re helping your baby learn a new skill, one loving step at a time.
The Cultural Story of Baby Sleep of Bedsharing
Where your baby sleeps is deeply personal. Explore how culture, biology, and instinct shape baby sleep — and why both crib sleep and safe bedsharing can be healthy, loving choices for your family.
Daylight Savings 2025: “Fall Back” Without Losing Sleep
Help your baby or toddler adjust smoothly to the 2025 Daylight Savings time change. Learn gentle, proven tips from Independent Sleepers to prevent early wake-ups, protect your family’s rest, and keep bedtime peaceful.
How to Improve Your Baby’s Sleep with Gentle Shifts
I used to rush in at every sound my baby made, not realizing I was interrupting her natural sleep cycles. Over time, I learned that gentle, simple shifts — pausing before responding, offering calm reassurance, and creating consistency — helped her (and me) sleep better. These small changes built trust, connection, and true sleep confidence without formal sleep training.
Why I Don’t Believe in the Ferber Method — and Why I Choose Gentle, Attachment-Based Sleep Learning
I don’t identify with the Ferber method. For me, the risk of detachment, anxiety, or stress isn’t worth a few extra hours of sleep. I choose gentle, attachment-based sleep learning—meeting babies’ needs with connection, co-regulation, and trust so true sleep confidence grows from safety, not separation.
Cribside Comfort — Step-by-Step Guide
Cribside Comfort is a gentle, attachment-focused sleep approach that helps babies learn independent sleep skills without tears. Stay close, provide comfort, and watch your baby gain confidence in just 1–2 weeks — all while protecting connection and mental wellbeing.
Overtired Baby: Why It Happens and How to Help
An overtired baby is “wired and tired,” making sleep harder instead of easier. Learn the signs of overtiredness, how to prevent it with wake windows and routines, and what to do when your baby is already overtired in this supportive, mom-friendly guide.
Reflux & Gassy Babies: What New Moms Need to Know & Soothing Technique
Reflux and gas are common in newborns, but they can leave both babies and parents feeling exhausted. Learn why they happen, signs to look for, gentle strategies to ease discomfort, and when to call the doctor—all in a supportive, mom-friendly guide.
Tips for Soothing a Fussy Baby: The 5 S’s (Plus My Mom-Approved Bonus!)
Struggling to calm your fussy newborn? Discover the 5 S’s (plus my mom-approved bonus!) to soothe your baby with gentle, womb-like comfort. From swaddling to the magical eyebrow stroke, these tools will help ease fussiness and give you more confidence.
Split Nights: Why Your Baby Might Be Waking for Midnight “Parties”
Is your baby waking for “midnight parties” between 11 PM and 3 AM? Split nights are often caused by overtiredness, too much day sleep, or schedule mismatches. Learn why they happen and gentle, practical ways to help your baby return to restful nights.
Responsive Night Weaning: When, Why & How
Night weaning is a gentle, gradual process—not a must-do milestone. Learn when it might be the right time, what signs to look for, and how to approach it with love, patience, and confidence while still supporting your baby’s unique needs.
Bedtime Fading: A Gentle Way to Ease Toddler Bedtime Struggles
Bedtime fading is a gentle, effective way to ease bedtime battles. Learn how adjusting sleep timing to match your child’s natural rhythm can reduce resistance, shorten settling, and bring more peace (and less stress) to your evenings.
Independent Sleep Doesn’t Mean You’re Not an Attached Mom
Independent sleep doesn’t mean you’re less attached to your baby. Learn why setting loving boundaries, embracing gentle sleep strategies, and even taking small breaks can actually strengthen connection and help you show up as the best version of mom.
Simple Strategies to Ease Toddler/Preschooler Bedtime Battles
Bedtime battles with toddlers are tough, but you’re not alone. Discover why little ones resist sleep and learn gentle, practical strategies to ease separation struggles, give them a sense of control, and create calmer, more predictable evenings.
How to End the “One More Thing” Toddler & Preschooler Bedtime Battle
Struggling with the endless “one more thing” requests at bedtime? Learn why toddlers and preschoolers stall, what they really need, and eight gentle, effective strategies to set loving boundaries and create calmer evenings for the whole family.
False Starts: Why Your Baby Wakes Soon After Bedtime
False starts—when your baby wakes soon after bedtime—can feel exhausting and confusing. Learn the most common causes like sleep pressure, comfort, environment, and development, plus practical ways to ease them and support better rest for your baby.
10 Simple Ways to Support Your Baby’s Sleep Without Sleep Training
Looking for gentle ways to help your baby sleep better without sleep training? These 10 simple, science-backed tips focus on connection, consistency, and routines to support healthy rest for your little one—and more peace of mind for you.
Catnaps: Why They Happen & Why They’re Nothing to Fear
Catnaps are short naps that many babies take in their first year—and they’re completely normal. Learn why they happen, why they aren’t harmful, and how to support your baby’s rest while easing your own worries with guidance from a certified sleep coach.
Let’s Talk About Sleep “Regressions” (a.k.a. PROgressions!)
Sleep regressions don’t mean your baby is moving backward — they’re actually signs of growth. Learn what really happens during the 4-month sleep progression, why it matters, and how to support both your baby and yourself with expert, practical tips.